hello
how could i deal with this situation?
i issued a sujestion to one of the managers at my work place and for some reasn i think she took it the wrong way.
i think she felt somewhat insulted because i have a lower pay position.
i wasnt shore exactly how to deal with this and i think i ended up making it worse by continue to try to make conversation
in the past we allwasy got along prety good i think; but after this incident i sense some weird vibes comming from her.
i dont want to stop talking to her create an stress eviroment for my self and i dont want to continue to say hi and get weird vibes or worst have her complain to Human resources and get fired.
any tips a professional would deal with this situation?
this is my first time in a professional enviroment.
any tips n how to avoid this type of situations in the future?
sinse this is my first time in a professional enviroment, are there any books out there that can help me to understand how an office eviroment works socially?
any type of help would be apreciated.
Thanks!
What was the "suggestion"?
She might feel threatened because you are a low paid worker who suggested something really good that she should have thought of first as the manager?
The best way is to "kill her with kindness". Don't stop talking to her…as it will look like you have a problem. Instead, always smile and say "Hi" to her…say it really loudly so other workers can here it…this way, if she ever brings up a complaint…other workers will have heard you previously saying Hi and being nice and will know you tried to make an effort.
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